When You Heal the Root Cause,
Real Change Happens.
Our Nervous system based approach is really about helping both individuals thrive.
It is crutial that we create a safe space for you to share your point of view and we first make sure we fully understand each perspective.
However, we will also make sure you both hear what you NEED to hear, rather than what you may WANT to hear - because our intention is to fully resolve the problems in the relationship, rather than continue the cycle of destructive thoughts and patterns.
What Exactly Is a Nervous System Approach - And Why Is It the Key to Transforming Your Relationship?
Your relationship will only change when your nervous system does.
Often, our body's get stuck in tension patterns, accumulated from past traumas or stresses.
When we release the tension and trauma out of both partners bodies through our evidence-based Nervous system technique (Network Spinal Analysis), you experience several positive changes both individually and together:
Individually
You can't be in an amazing relationship if you're not in an amazing place within yourself. Healing your traumas by working with your nervous system will create the space for your relationship to be extraordinary.
Reduced Reactivity
You become less triggered, calmer, and more grounded.
More Emotional Clarity
Clearly understand your feelings and needs.
Increased Emotional Resilience
This is an important one: You will handle life stresses and triggers without getting overwhelmed and reactive.
Confidence & Authenticity
Become comfortable expressing who you truly are, leading to more genuine interactions and deeper self trust.
Within The Relationship
Often the outcome of experiencing the individual benefits. With both people feeling less reactive, more authentic, more emotional clarity and resilience, this naturally deepens the connection between the two people.
Clearer Communication
Conversations become easier, more honest, and more productive.
Deeper Connection
You're able to be more present and open towards each other.
Greater Intimacy
Physical and emotional intimacy improves as you feel safer with each other.
Collaborative Problem Solving
You're able to approach challenges with ease and understanding together, not as opponents.
Heal Yourself,
Grow Together.
When we learn about ourselves as well as healing/ resetting our nervous system, and our partner is doing the same thing, not only will we feel better within ourselves and have more energy, but our relationships improve because we are accessing different parts of our nervous system which are no longer firing off defensive strategies.
Rewire Your Relationship Patterns
If you're both firing off each others' triggers and becoming reactive, you're most likely stuck in unconscious patterns that need to be broken if you both want to be able to thrive in your relationship.
All too often, people are looking to blame, find faults in the other person, or justify - but most relationship challenges come down to unconscious patterns that have arisen from your past conditionings or traumas.
There's often stories and accumulated baggage attached to these patterns, and the function of them is to get your needs met - but you might be getting your needs met in a dysfunctional way.
We can help you become conscious of your specific patterns, break the patterns, and create new ones by design.
A fresh start.
But only if both of you want it.
Learn About Your 6 Human Needs
Discover what's really driving your patterns.
The root of most unhappy couples is a dynamic where neither person is getting their needs met in a healthy way.
Understand your 6 human needs, and learn how each of you may be unconsciously trying to fulfill these needs in ways that either strengthen or strain your relationship.
We'll show you how unmet or misunderstood needs fuel the tension and misunderstanding, and what some alternative options are to meet each others needs in a constructive way.
Once you shift from unconscious, destructive patterns to intentional, supportive behaviours, you will naturally build a healthier, stronger, more fulfilling connection.
Sometimes, the reality is that some couples are not meant to be with each other as they have grown apart, want different things, or the timing is not quite right. When that is the case, if you've healed the trauma and wounds from the relationship, you can have a conscious uncoupling - which is ideal if you still have kids.
WHY MY CLIENTS INSPIRED ME TO DO
Couples Work
Over the years of working with people in my practice, I have had so many people tell me that the work we are doing has helped them so much and their relationships have improved.
I've had many clients tell me that therapy wasn't working for them, and that they learnt more with us in one session than they have throughout the time with their therapist where they were just feeling judged or blames, or vice versa.
I've had many people suggest over the years that we specifically run courses/ programs, or do sessions for couples and my one condition is:
As long as both people want to make a change, I am happy to work with them.
Infidelity & Blame
Sometimes, it is hard not to point fingers when one person has done a behaviour that causes the relationship to spiral.
In this case, there are only 2 options.
One is to help you move past blame. The reason for this is if you are blaming, then how can you ever move forward?
The other option is to continue blaming and therefore you must separate, otherwise the relationship will never heal, and never be healthy and strong again.
Restore Your Nervous System,
Restore Your Love
If you're willing to learn about each others needs, unlearn a few patterns, explore new ways of doing things, and still deep down you believe the relationship is worth putting some energy into...
We'd love to help you reignite your passion, spark, intimacy, connection and depth.
Our goal is to help you become stronger than you've ever been before.
Contact us to organise a Phone Call
We first need to ensure your situation is something we're the right fit for before welcoming you and your partner into our clinic.
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